Yes we r gonna talk abt sex before marriage
1st u have to know that the writer of this is a 20s girl muslim from Egypt from an oriental kinda religious culture , So this issue is extremely sensitive and complicated <<, So let GO :)
an important back ground abt our society in the current time , that the age of marriage is quietly late , in the same time both boys and girls r not sexually active and they r prohibited from any sexual act from both religion and cultural reasons ,,
So, we have boys and girls from 20 - 30s they r not married and they r not allowed to have sex "btw some ppl having they sexual life with out marriage but am talking bat vas majority "
sex is a instinct desire like eating , drinking and sleeping So to be a normal and healthy person u have to be satisfied from ur primitive needs so we have a frustrated youth with a missing part from their life
by time many of them become sexually oriented they have a good life but htey wowing 4 sex , a huge part from their thinking is directed to this way
this thinking is implicated to their actions
so we see a lot of bad behaviors happen , like sexual harasment , illegal sexual practices and pregnancy , excessive masturbation , and the psychological impact on their life that they feel imperfect , some thing is missing and the important point 4 me is what's happen when they r abt to marry ?!
imagin a sexually deprived youth finally got the chance to marry , if the logic thinking and love didnt play a perfect role the chice of the partner will be defective 4 sure ,
this will make them fall in love easily or having a quick marriage coz they wanna have sex
so after time of marriage and the sexual needs become satisfied after a while the true part of thinking appear , they will unfortunately discover that they didnt make a proper chice coz they focused on the sexual charecters of their partner , by time they will know thats its not only abt sex
So they point now is how to avoid such a case by having sex before marriage ? I dont know I cant answer this question , ppl r free to choose their won way to live their life but if the answer is yes
so we have to experience sex with the person we wanna marry or person we love or just having sex with any other person to remove this sexual oriented thinking
for me marriage before sex is not a good choice but if u will follow this , we have to think rationally before
marriage and choose our partner sanely and wait the excitement of surprise consider ur self before marriage as ur in diet but in sex :D